Friday, November 24, 2006
Friendship - part one
其实我很早很早就很想把这个朋友的故事写出来,跟大家分想一下原来这世界上是有着这么一个“变态”的人,也可以说是有点神经病的。

我会分阶段来写,因为故事真的太长了!其实不算是故事,而是真人真事!

熟悉她的人或许会知道这其中的一小段。

*中文真的很难写,我还是用英文好了!*

I wanted to type it in chinese, so that i can express better, but my 'han yu pin yin' quite bad, and when I got the right han yu pin yin, I've forgot most of the words in the sentence that I'm going to write. Sien!!!! Hope you will understand what I'm trying to write in English.

Okie, this friend of mine really can make up a lot of story, and she acted in a way that everyone definately will believe what she said. But she never knows that no matter how good the lies is, there will be a day that people around her will break the lies.

She told everyone that she has a bf, which is one year elder than us (means her so-called bf was in form5 while we were in form4). Tell us how good he had treated her and how much they were in love. (this part is well-known by all her mates, so I think I will just tell the one that nobody knows). The things I am going to tell will sounds common or not a big deal for a couple, but imagine they were not couple, the guy never likes her before.

One day, two of them went camping together with other scout members, she told me that this guy actually wanted to go into her tent to chit-chat with her, she was so scare that he will has further action so rejected, and at last they laid down on the ground chit-chating while looking up to the sky counting the stars (it is something like what we see in movie that couple usually do at night). Then the second night, she was so scare to stay in the tent alone because she scare the same thing will happen and she doesn't know how to reject. (ueekkk, feel like going to puke now :p)

There is another story with the same guy, this time they had broken up. One day, when she was doing something (I can't remember what she did) in Scout's room, then this guy went in (she was alone that time), and play a song to her with his guitar. The title of the song is 戴佩妮-怎样,(for those who never listen to this song, or had forgotten the lyric, here it is: 如果我们现在还在一起会是怎样,我们是不是还是深爱着对方,像开始时那样,握着手就算天快要亮了。。。)and she didn't know what to do, so ran out of the room leaving the guy alone. Good imagination isn't it? I seriously don't know this song until she told me this story, and I started to pay attention on its lyric, then I only get what she meant to me.

I can't remember how they got back together in the end, maybe after several thousand times of 要求. I wish she had told me that the guy actually knee down to her and ask her to come back to his side, then that will make my story more attractive. Then the guy graduated from secondary school and further his study somewhere in KL, so they can't meet everyday like they usually do. During any festive season, like Valentine's Day, her birthday, or when they quarrelled, then there will be problem for us (me and another frined of mine, let's address him KS, a guy). We received text messages from this guy (her bf) which ask us if we can go to Wee Garden (fluorist store in KB) to collect the whole bunch of roses and deliver to her house. Not once, nor twice, it was many times until the roses acumulated in her room is soo sooo soooo many, you can't imagine how many is that unless you've seen it by yourself. Imagine, we have no car by that time, KS need to ask help from his friend, where KS "drive" motorcycle and his friend holding a bunch of roses at the back driving from the fluorist store to her house, to a girl who is not their gf. How shameful was that?

Let think if the guy really ordered roses for her from Wee Garden, he should know that Wee Garden do provide delivery service, why he can't ask the staffs there to deliver the roses staright to her house by paying extra few bucks, since he had paid so much for the roses. 12 stalks of rose, you know how much it cost during Valentine's Day. Weird. But we didn't say anything since people actually opened their mouth and asked for help, how can we reject?

During her birthday, we'd received a text message which asked us to buy her her favourite lychee cake and celebrate with her at 12am. Oh gosh, now I've knew everything and reflect the situation back in my mind, how can a person send a text message by using other people's name to ask her friends to get her favourite cake for her birthday celebration?

There is another case where I just knew it from darlinn when we were talking about this girl among our housemates. Before me and darlinn get together years ago, darlinn actually asked this girl before whether what I like and dislike, so that he can make a move to get me. I was so shock that she actually said this to darlinn. I can't remember how she phrase it, but it is something that ask darlinn to do the ways how her so-called bf treated her. OMG, you don't even have a bf, or you'd have an imaginary bf and you started to teach other how to attract girl?

Here come the serious problems occurred between our friendship (me and this girl).

There was a day where she came to my house to do some revision before our SPM BM Lisan exam, it was saturday (I seriously remembered the day and time clearly in my mind) afternoon, we were studying together in my room and then we both felt hunger so we left the house to go to KFC, which is just just at the back of my house. We walked there, had our KFC chicken, then went back home. I used my key to open the door, and we both get into the house, by the time we want to leave the house to go for tuition (it was add math tuition at Cheng's house, 4pm), I lost my key. Initially I thought I put somewhere that I can't seen by a glance, and we were in a hurry as we were late, so I just ignore it and went off. But the key didn't appear after few days, and weeks and months.

There was one night that I slept quite early and left my mobile phone charging in the living room. The next morning I realised I got a few missed calls and a text messages. It is something like this: "I found your house key in my friend's house. Please explaine to me how and when did you two meet? What did you all do together." It sounds very fierce to me. But i just ignore, thinking that the friend she mentioned is KS, where I always follow her to KS house, so if the key left there then it won't be a big deal. But it turned out to be my key was found in her imaginary bf house. I never meet the guy before (I know who is he but we never talk to each other before), never contact him before, other than sending a few text messages when he need help to deliver stuffs.

When I arrived in class, she just walked to me and throw my key on my desk while starring at me with a fierce look then left. I was shock. I didn't know what happened at all. As usual, I left school after my chemistry class (that time was really close to SPM, so I will only go to school for certain subjects only), and she kept spreading to others that I actually want to go back and "pakat" with the guy (her imaginary bf) how to lie to her. She thought that I'd have 见不得光的感情 with her imaginary bf, and I left my key in his house when we met silently. WTF.!! Okie, fine, I don't want to quarrel, up to you if you want to spread the story to the whole world. but I really feel so sad during that period, all because I treat her as my close friend but she treated me with this nonsense.

Started from that day, I received a lot of message from this imaginary bf asking me about this lost-key case. I did replied him for the questions he asked. But after few days, I can't stand anymore for being treated so badly, I sent a text message to KS to ask whether he knows what's going on between us and tell him this guy actually contacted me, and his first and very fast replied to me was, do not reply any of this guy text messages. Then told me everything he discovered from this guy's text messages. It was actually the girl herself who type all the messages and sent out pretending she is the guy.

After almost one and a half year of imaginary relationship with this guy, they "officially" broke up. I can't remember when, where a few friends of mine which is close to this guy (her bf) actually asked the guy whether is it true that they actually being together. Okie, everything is clear when the guy replied was NO.! He never likes her before and all that is just a lie.

I really 佩服 her for creating so much story by herself, acting like she really falls in love, buying flowersSSSSS and giftssss for herself, but in the end there is no relationship at all. Until today I still cannot accept that actually she bought all the roses by herself and told everyone that she rceived roses from her love one. *puke*
 
posted by Lay Ming at 2:03 AM | Permalink |


2 Comments:


  • At November 24, 2006 at 4:18 AM, Blogger Lay Ming

    please, for those who knows who am i actually writing on, just keep it for yourself. the story is written very clearly who the girl is (if you are her mates then you surely know who is this). for those who don't know her, then at least now you know that i have such a "cute" friend.

     
  • At November 29, 2006 at 12:06 AM, Anonymous Anonymous

    ur fren quite cute lor