I have got to know a girl, which i'm getting to dislike or hate her recently.
her BF was so ill the other day, and she was kind enough to visit him in the afternoon, but strange enough, she did not stay till dinner time, she left at 5.45pm which is almost dinner time. she did not bother to cook him a meal before she left (he was severely ill). in the end, his housemates need to cook him a meal for his dinner.
on the other hand, he went to her house immediately when he got to know that she isn't feeling well, cooked for her, stayed at her house to look after her all day long even though he was busy with his own studies and final year project and exams.
she is working while he is studying.
she had a week off just before his exams. she wants to go for shopping while he needs to concentrate in his coming exams. she wasn't being considerate at all, well maybe she had, just a tiny little bit, as she didn't ask him to accompany her for shopping. but she asked him to send and pick her up from town whenever she goes shopping, and she went shopping everyday during the one-week off.
ok fair enough that she needs to park her car in his house to save the parking fees in town. but the thing is the distance from his house to town is only 15 mins walk away. she could had walked to town by herself rather than asking him to send her by car. she should know how important it is to concentrate while revising for exams. the worst thing was she treated him as a driver, asked him to drive her here and there (5 times a day), how can he concentrate when he need to revise and then stop to be a driver and then continue to revise again.
he is a person where he will keep everything to himself, even when he is angry or not happy with someone or something.
last few days, he was sick (he had caught a cold), and she did not bother to visit him at all. on the first day of CNY, they both went to a CNY celebration organised by a chinese church student fellowship. apon leaving, she drove home without sending him home first (they both left at the same time), he was having blocked nose (couldn't breath like normal) but still had to walk in the super cold night to get home.
and today, guess he had just recovered from his cold, and she fell sick, according to him, she got a severe headache, and he rushed to her house immediately early in the morning, just to look after her and cook for her. and he is staying overnight at her house to make sure that she is OK for the whole night.
WTF!! she didn't even come to see him when he was sick just 3 days ago, and now she is sick, she wants him to go over to accompany her. she did not bother to cook him a meal when he was severely sick and now he had to cook for her when she is sick. she treated him like a driver when he was suppose to concentrate and prepare for his exams.
i know i shouldn't be so ke-po (busybody) against people's relationship but i really cannot stand anymore, how can she treat him like this when he treated her so nice. even though i didn't cook but it was darling who cook most of the time last year but when he was sick or not feeling well or being busy, i will take the responsibility to cook. please la, at least has some consideration for your BF!
her BF was so ill the other day, and she was kind enough to visit him in the afternoon, but strange enough, she did not stay till dinner time, she left at 5.45pm which is almost dinner time. she did not bother to cook him a meal before she left (he was severely ill). in the end, his housemates need to cook him a meal for his dinner.
on the other hand, he went to her house immediately when he got to know that she isn't feeling well, cooked for her, stayed at her house to look after her all day long even though he was busy with his own studies and final year project and exams.
she is working while he is studying.
she had a week off just before his exams. she wants to go for shopping while he needs to concentrate in his coming exams. she wasn't being considerate at all, well maybe she had, just a tiny little bit, as she didn't ask him to accompany her for shopping. but she asked him to send and pick her up from town whenever she goes shopping, and she went shopping everyday during the one-week off.
ok fair enough that she needs to park her car in his house to save the parking fees in town. but the thing is the distance from his house to town is only 15 mins walk away. she could had walked to town by herself rather than asking him to send her by car. she should know how important it is to concentrate while revising for exams. the worst thing was she treated him as a driver, asked him to drive her here and there (5 times a day), how can he concentrate when he need to revise and then stop to be a driver and then continue to revise again.
he is a person where he will keep everything to himself, even when he is angry or not happy with someone or something.
last few days, he was sick (he had caught a cold), and she did not bother to visit him at all. on the first day of CNY, they both went to a CNY celebration organised by a chinese church student fellowship. apon leaving, she drove home without sending him home first (they both left at the same time), he was having blocked nose (couldn't breath like normal) but still had to walk in the super cold night to get home.
and today, guess he had just recovered from his cold, and she fell sick, according to him, she got a severe headache, and he rushed to her house immediately early in the morning, just to look after her and cook for her. and he is staying overnight at her house to make sure that she is OK for the whole night.
WTF!! she didn't even come to see him when he was sick just 3 days ago, and now she is sick, she wants him to go over to accompany her. she did not bother to cook him a meal when he was severely sick and now he had to cook for her when she is sick. she treated him like a driver when he was suppose to concentrate and prepare for his exams.
i know i shouldn't be so ke-po (busybody) against people's relationship but i really cannot stand anymore, how can she treat him like this when he treated her so nice. even though i didn't cook but it was darling who cook most of the time last year but when he was sick or not feeling well or being busy, i will take the responsibility to cook. please la, at least has some consideration for your BF!
